Your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life

Your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life... He tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a car first....

You sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you'll be the wife? With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Clinique products.. He goes to work and goes straight to class after work... He leaves you at home and comes back to finds you in the same home,... While he studies you watch all the Telemundo, Telenovelas, Africa Magic, Zee World, B4U, etc on Gotv, Dstv, Bbnaija, Tittoks with braless clothes. etc.

He comes back home to find rice and chicken in the microwave everyday... The house is clean and his clothes ironed... The only serious conversation you all have is about the type of groceries you guys need at home. 

The only advice you give him is "babe you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth... No plans of making your own life better... Yes you are pretty... No doubt about that.... So is every second girl passing by....

Do you realise something... You are not doing anything a maid can't do.... He's going to finish school, he will get a nice paying job and the first thing he's going to do is REPLACE HIS MAID cause he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE/GF.

That's when we are going to hear your famous last words "I was with him thru thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successful he thinks i am nothing" Yes you're right... You have

always been NOTHING but a maid to him. . . Empower yourself to be the woman any man will love to be with... A woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or his health!!!

Ladies, invest more in empowering yourselves for a brighter future than on fancy clothes, big phones, expensive hair and make up....... Beauty fades but men can't resist a woman with brains... Wake up and do something.!!!

Have you not realize that men are wise nowadays, yes women too are wise but picking up a girl without vision or plan for herself happens in Nigerian Nollywood apart from wanting to just pass time with her.. You understand what I mean..

Even before Ned could pick Regina, she has gotten to a level of life that at least 60% of men will wish to be with her..

But look at ur own case now,, if I'm ur senior brother will you recommend a girl of your type for me to get married to??

I will always want a girl that will walk as I'm walking, even though she is not fast as I am,, it's an energy for me not to be weak but what of a girl that is seating down while I'm walking..

So stop saying I was with him when he had nothing and he left me when he became something. Instead ask yourself this question'

  when he was working his way out to become something, what were you doing? If both of you became something together, do you think he will leave and even if he do, you have also become something for yourself.

Think about it 🤔

Still Godson

(NwaChukwu)